Back In My Day: Civilized War – Ms. Ruth, Katrina & Life Lessons, Part Two

Ms. Ruth led me inside her cramped trailer. She kept it spotless, but had to stack boxes of personal items wherever she could find space. Her church had volunteers who maintained it for her. It was so small and not her home. We sat at the kitchen table and drank some lemonade to cool down.

I asked her about the flood damage and if she lost much. She said there was enough warning to get the critical things out like family photos, some clothes and other personal items; but the furniture, appliances, other clothes and furnishings were ruined. The problem was the storm’s eye had been predicted to hit more to the west into LA and TX, but turned as it neared the coast. So there was not enough time to do much if she was to leave in time.

Many of you have heard and read stories about how fire, floods, etc. generally will not harm Bibles. You may have rolled your eyes like I did as they were told. I don’t do that anymore. Ms. Ruth described how she left her Bible on a table in the living room unintentionally in the rush to leave. On our first day on site she brought it out to show all of us that it was not damaged – at all. There is photo and video evidence in city records and the media of the storm surge and flooding as well as we saw the flood markings on the exterior walls of her home. It would be physically impossible for it to not be exposed to the rush of the flood waters as the windows and doors were destroyed. She said the Bible was still laying on the table with no water damage at all while everything else in the house had floated into piles and was ruined. If you are a skeptic, you can choose to believe she lied, was mistaken, or maybe that the table just happened to be in the right place or floated freely about the house with an untouched Bible on it. Those are options. After our visit, I chose to believe her. I could not detect a sliver of deception or deceit in her body during our discussions. Scripture breathed through the woman. I also know that God does what God does. He does not need me to confirm what He does to make it true.

I asked her about her family and she opened up about each child, her grandchildren, and that her husband had passed away a decade before. She loved him dearly. A son had died as a younger man. She did not elaborate and I did not question. She worked in food service in the area all of her life and was retiring from the local VA Medical Center. She talked about all of the ministries and activities she was involved in at her church, which clearly brought her great joy. I learned she was Missionary Baptist, which so happened to be how my wife was raised. I told her that we occasionally still worshipped at her family’s home church and were married by the pastor there at that time. She expressed how happy she was to hear that, a common thread.

In return she asked me about our lives back in TN.

She knew that many of us on the construction team were UMC members from discussions with team members. I told her they were the most welcoming of all the churches in our community and that our congregation was a bit different than the norm for that denomination. We were mostly evangelicals who tried to follow the instructions of James. I pointed out my contractor friend as an example. Her heart melted as she adored the man. She knew he was God fearing with a servant’s heart from all of their interactions with the rebuild. Since it was his fourth visit in the relief and reconstruction efforts, he had become well known to the local community as he stayed for longer period than most folks.

We discussed her church’s efforts to help everybody during it all. She said they were all about repentance, restoration and redemption with strong pastoral and deacon leadership. I assured her that I completely agreed with that approach. At that point she stood up and asked if we could go outside to the lawn chairs to sit in the shade out of the heat of the trailer. I took it as it was time to get my smelly, sweaty body out of her kitchen. 😂

After getting trash talked by the team for sitting and not working, to which I responded for them to respect their elders 😀; I asked her if the people that remained in the neighborhood were OK, if she was safe and supported. She smiled and said there were no big problems, that they all tried to help each other. She knew about the drug dealing, but said the man was never a problem to anybody who lived there. She assumed he would eventually move on or be arrested. She said she prayed for both he and his customers to change their ways. The problems the neighborhood had were more with city services and the lack of clean up of now vacant, trashy lots that harbored vermin. But she knew the city was stretched thin by all they had to do.

She was not a fan of the casinos other than that people could make a living working there and in surrounding businesses. She did not condone gambling and saw too many lives ruined from it. She said she never condemned people for their choices, just tried to be there to pick them up when they fell and show them a better way. I told her I agreed, that my wife had once been married to a gambler who spent all of their money on it. During those times he would abandon her and their daughter. He expected her to take him back each time, until she didn’t. He gambled and lost, which ended in my gain.

Then she opened up about the real tragedy of the situation there.

For the people who remained and did not abandon their properties, FEMA trailers were everywhere. They had the basic necessities, but were cramped and uncomfortable in the hot, humid Mississippi and Louisiana climates. Most had no AC unless the residents found a way to add a small window type unit. She was thankful to have a place, but uncomfortable much of the time.

Residents who wanted to stay and rebuild like Ms. Ruth had endured endless waffling by FEMA and other government agencies in the process of having their homes restored. Some who wanted to stay grew weary of the delays and cramped quarters such that they sold out. The delays seemed intentional. FEMA and state authorities clearly preferred buying the properties for a pittance, especially when casinos were raking in huge tax revenues and employing large numbers of local residents. So in those areas they had been very slow to respond to the infrastructure needs to rebuild as well as storm damage and trash removal. Some of the properties FEMA purchased at low ball prices were later sold to bidding developers and contractors to build affordable housing for casino workers. Just another scummy example of the government taking advantage of its citizens’ misery. Shocker.

Ms. Ruth wanted none of it. Her home and her church were there, it meant more for her to be there since it was her calling. Imagine being an elderly retired person living on a small social security check and VA pension in a little trailer on your own property for a year after signing documents to receive assistance from the program in the form of a low interest loan to cover costs above the insurance settlement; and yet your home had not had the first repair started. The authorities wanted her to take a small check, sign it over, pack up and leave. At her age of 69-70 years old, she could have easily done so with one of her two living children and families, but refused. She wanted her independence and to answer her calling. Ms. Ruth did the hard thing, she held her ground.

At that point as a contrarian deep in my soul, I could not have been more proud of getting to know her.

Real Equality, Not The Propaganda

To finish our conversation that day I touched on a subject she cracked the door to discuss. She said, “We all want the same thing, love and respect.” I decided then was my time to open the door wider. I wanted her to know that we all saw her for who she was; a beautiful, Christian human being who loved and served others selflessly. I simply made the statement to her that most people are the same at heart. Sometimes we just let the world get in the way of who we are supposed to be. I thanked for how she had received us and the positive influence she was on members of our team. I told her that we were praying for her and the situation for folks there every evening in our devotional times.

She smiled, nodded her head and thanked me. We both knew skin color had nothing to do with who we are and should be a human beings. In that encounter we had grown to trust and extend Christian love to one another as the Lord intended.

I had no idea until many years later when she passed away that Ms. Ruth had been deeply involved in the local region’s civil rights movement of the 50s and 60s. We did not talk about politics, racism, etc. at all during that week. Life had moved on since those days and people had become much more accepting of each other.

Ms. Ruth also had to mature past the hurts and troubles of her past experiences just like every single one of us do. Our week with her as a team following a catastrophe in that area put another small stamp of affirmation on her beliefs about people as well. Not only did she witness to us powerfully, we witnessed to her by being of selfless service and affirming her value as a person. The entire neighborhood and city saw it every single day that volunteer relief workers spent time in the city helping those who were in need regardless of their skin colors, religious or not, poor or rich, etc. backgrounds.

The only regret I had was that the state’s relief organization did not see fit to send teams to blitz rebuild and get them done more timely. Had our two teams been assigned to Ms. Ruth’s or any other similar rebuild after the demo and mold treatment had been completed, we could have fully completed the rebuild and requested the final inspection within a couple of weeks. Many of us would have been able to commit to stay a longer period. Having 12-15 men and women doing rebuild work and a contractor assigned to instruct and inspect while scheduling the electrical, plumbing, HVAC, etc. professionals would have accelerated the process. But government was involved, so it had to be done less efficiently. They turned a 30 day blitz rebuild from start to finish into a 3-4 months process. Of course. 🤪

Parting Ways

The next to last day we completed our assignment plus more at Ms. Ruth’s. We said goodbye and were sent off with hugs and another heartfelt prayer of thanksgiving. I’m sure she was prepared to greet the next team coming in the same way she did us, although she said we had been her favorites for how hard we worked and how much we shared our lives with her. We all chose to believe her. 😀 She was beginning to get excited about moving back into her home in a month or so.

The final day of our journey was one of team bonding and touring the coast. We set out on a journey to the west and did not return until evening. It was only about a two hour drive to N’awlins from Ocean Springs since the majority of I-10 had reopened. We would take side trips into other affected areas with the detours. The hotel I stayed in the year before had been repaired and reopened. A full court press of construction had taken place as they worked to get the Superdome and the rest of the French Quarter ready for the Saints’ NFL season. However, the hardest hit flooded residential areas from the infamous levee breaches and pump failures left places like the Ninth Ward and St. Bernard’s Parish still messes and ghost towns.

The tales of human misery had reached legendary status there. One of the easier ways to understand it is documented in one statistic. The Coast Guard officially rescued over 34,000 people from the flood waters in the area alone. Then consider that regional residents with boats rescued greater numbers than that while providing food, water and shelter to their neighbors. It was a wonderful story of people helping people as good ole boys and gals of all skin colors took to their bass, ski and pleasure boats to troll the waters seeking to rescue their neighbors in those terrible conditions. So many had stayed to ride out the storm or did not have transportation to be able to leave. Katrina had been downgraded to Category 3 as it hit on shore, so they thought they could ride it out. Nobody expected the extent of the flooding. That is what caused it all to turn into such a tragedy in N’awlins.

It was from these efforts that the rescuers from the general public later came together in 2016 to form the Louisiana Cajun Navy organization to assist in times such as those. During the period that followed they grew into an org of 300,000 contributors. Their on-going efforts extend into disaster relief from tornadoes and earthquakes as well. They are currently on the job providing help in MS, AR, and west TN from the past couple of weeks of tornadoes. They are extensively trained and coordinated. They work in combination with local emergency operations command centers and provide whatever needs to be done to locate, rescue and assist people.

https://louisianacn.com/Press.aspx

Conclusion

We arrived back in Ocean Springs to enjoy one last meal together before making the long drive home. We made sure that was spent pigging out at the famous, The Shed Barbecue & Blues Joint in Ocean Springs.

https://www.theshedbbq.com

Uh, yeah! Awesome way to finish the adventure. I had a sample of nearly everything on the menu as a reward to myself as we all chilled out with some good country blues music from a local band. Which reminds me of their cover of the song below. Remember Goober as a…

My ex’s first cousin played keyboards/synthesizer in the band during this period.

I will wrap up with some notes from the Katrina journey along with more adventures leading in the exact opposite direction next time. Until then, be blessed. He is risen!

Back In My Day: Civilized War – Hurricane Katrina and Elsie “Ruth” Dixson; Part One

There once was this devout Christian widow from the Deep South who taught a bunch of worker bees from other parts of the country what helping others really meant. She provided a powerful witness of goodness, grace and Christian faith. Believer or non-believer, if you did not come out positively impacted by your experiences with her, you were either dead or stone cold emotionally. This truth teller is in the presence of the Lord now having passed into eternity four years ago on this day, March 31. However, when that bell tolls for me, I will then get to tell her what she gave us who were touched by her Christian love.

https://www.marshallfh.com/obituary/elsie-dixson

https://www.wlox.com/story/14287074/biloxi-church-celebrates-165-years/

“May the Work I Have Done, Speak for me.”

As you read her obituary I am going to ask you to suspend your judgments about the Democratic Party and NAACP participation in her obituary. Anybody who has lived in the deep south BIMD and beyond knows exactly what I am talking about. We know that some of the white people could be dismissive, unkind and even brutal toward people of color, especially blacks. We can also be honest about how both organizations later evolved and morphed into something they were not intended to be. At times BIMD they served a valuable purpose with their movements toward equality for all people. It was something we should have all already known and applied by simply following The Word as well as our nation’s founding documents from two centuries before. Unfortunately, it also went on to demonstrate how all human efforts tend to go when people in power lose sight of the higher calling.

In this short story linked below you will see a small example of the reality of those times. Be prepared because it really was that way. We just do not want to think about it now, to push it away. After all, we were not there and did not do those things ourselves. That truth is followed by the fact that we are still needing to deal with the memories and conflicts it caused. How many years did it take for a Hebrew to trust an Egyptian or Babylonian after being held captive as slaves and treated so poorly? That is what is involved here.

https://www.wlox.com/story/10337136/remembering-the-biloxi-wade-ins/

I usually end up going with the Biblical 40 years to recognize meaningful change. It is a “think Hebrew” principle and a number to be considered in relative terms much like other Hebrew thought patterns. In general it takes that long to defeat sin, renew hearts and start over as a people as the Bible reveals repeatedly. It needs to progress into the third and fourth generations from the events and people that cause and live through the traumatic experiences. I see it as an extension of God’s words in Deut. 5:9 among other scriptures – the sins of the fathers. However, events and people can cause the calendar of change to be reset. Which either extends the difficult period or accelerates the healing subject to the will of the Father.

Even with that understanding, the simple number 40 sure seems to be important in scripture. If you are still skeptical, consider the following…

The Israelites wandered in the desert for 40 years.

The people of Israel ate the manna 40 years, until they came to a habitable land. They ate the manna until they came to the border of the land of Canaan.

Jesus fasted for 40 days and 40 nights. It wasn’t until He had done so that He faced the greatest temptations anyone has ever faced, yet he passed the the test.

Moses had a 40 day fast on Mount Sinai with God on two different occasions to receive God’s laws.

Moses sent out spies for 40 days to spy out the land.

Ezekiel laid on his right side for 40 days to bear the iniquities of Judah, which represented the number of years – 40 – that the nation dishonored God.

God flooded the earth for 40 days during the time of Noah.

Jonah warned Ninevah for 40 days.

Goliath mocked and taunted Israel for 40 days before David ended it.

The three great kings in the Bible reigned for 40 years each: Saul, David and Solomon.

Jesus remained on earth 40 days after the resurrection.

Days before His crucifixion, Jesus prophesied the total destruction of Jerusalem. Which occurred 40 years later when the Roman Empire destroyed the city and burned the Temple to the ground.

I will stop for now, but there are many more. There are 146 references to the number in total. A bit too many to be coincidental in my opinion.

What you do not yet know is that the fine lady in this story worked within to bring peace and love to all skin colors in her area. Her calling and intentions were highly honorable and blessed by the Lord. She did not have the big college degrees, famous jobs or hold political office. She worked in food service jobs much of her life. Yet, she was held in deep reverence. One reason I know is because of the witness of all we met BIMD that lived in her community. Then there were her prayers for all of us as we worked to rebuild her and other homes within that neighborhood that were damaged by the winds and flooded to the rafters by the storm surge.

However, the primary reason is because I sat with her in and outside her FEMA trailer in which she temporarily lived when she gave me some of her time.

What would have been unimaginable 40+ years before, continued the healing and reeducation of multitudes that has rippled out of that small community forevermore. Even the destruction of Katrina was turned into a greater healing from God as people from everywhere came to the area to help, to give freely of themselves and resources to people they had never met.

Mobilization

I had some time available that I could take a break from our business as things were running smoothly. It was about a year after Katrina hit. Our construction team leader was and still is a close friend – brothers from different mothers. He was a very experienced, hands on general contractor who had already been to the area three times. The relief organization had even asked him to come to MS to be the state’s reconstruction leader of the entire effort on a five year contract, which he could not do as he was still a few years from being able to take early retirement from his long term employment. We all knew we were in good hands as he knew the mission, area, needs, resources and had the related expertise.

Having participated in past disaster relief efforts locally and in other areas, we all thought we knew what to expect. A few in our group who had been to the Katrina storm devastated areas before shook their heads and told us we had no idea, to prepare ourselves. After the long ride from East TN, we settled into our new digs for the week. The local UMC congregation housed us in Ocean Springs, MS; which is a couple miles east of Biloxi. The church had survived the storm with only minor roof and window damage that had already been repaired. The city had been damaged, especially along the waterfront of the bay, but less so than the areas to the west as we would soon learn. A mobile shower trailer had been connected to the water and electrical supply at the rear of the church and we would use their kitchen for our breakfast and evening meals. One of the ladies from our congregation who had restaurant cook experience along with a helper handled that chore along with grocery store purchases. The sleeping quarters were on the SS classroom floors of the second story where we would use the sleeping bags we brought.

After a nights sleep, we loaded up the trucks and SUVs with people and tools to head to the Command Center (CC), which was a large high school football stadium located in downtown Biloxi. In normal times that would be a 10 minute trip from the church. However, the massive Biloxi Bay Bridge between the two cities had been wiped out by Ms. Katrina. Nearly all of the spans were simply gone, leaving tall support structures standing like giant monuments in the water. So that trip became a 30-40 minute drive in a more circular route. That Biloxi Bay Bridge was rebuilt and reopened a couple of years later with much fanfare by the locals.

At the CC we received our work assignments. It would also be the place we would go for a mid-day break if in town and where we were provided free box lunches. As the Lord would have it, our first assignment was to go to Ms. Ruth’s home for dry wall finish work and sub floor installation. All of us could not have been more pumped about what we were going to be doing to help out. We also knew we would learn how to do many construction related activities that would prove beneficial for our honey-do projects at home. On the job training! 😀

Location: Holley Street, Biloxi, MS

Ms. Ruth lived in small brick rancher on a little, chain linked fenced lot in an older neighborhood. The homes were built in the 40s and 50s for the most part. Upon our arrival, nothing could prepare us who had not been there before for what we saw. Here it was a year later and it still looked like it had been nuked in places. To give you some idea, I have linked the Getty images from the period below, even though they do not do justice relating to the extent of the damages.

https://www.gettyimages.no/photos/hurricane-katrina-in-biloxi-ms?assettype=image&sort=mostpopular&phrase=hurricane%20katrina%20in%20biloxi%20ms&license=rf%2Crm&page=2

One of the things you will always remember when working storm relief efforts are the blue tarp roofs of homes. They were everywhere we went even over a year after the storm hit. The massive needs for roofing materials and roofers could not be overstated. However, some homes needed structural repairs made before the roofs could be done.

The neighborhood in which we worked at one time housed many of the workers and families of the two nearby casinos, which have now grown to eight in the area. A year later when we arrived some of the demolition and clean-up work had been completed. Over half of the residential lots that once had homes were empty of everything but weeds and remaining trash. The brick and block structures survived for the most part, although all suffered some type of damage. We learned that over 5,000 structures out of 25,000 in the city were immediately destroyed by the storm. Several thousand more were later demolished due to the damages that made them uninhabitable.

Ms. Ruth’s and neighbor properties had experienced an approximate 8′ surge. Weather photos of the coast prior to landfall showed a wall of water in the ocean off the MS shore to the west that was nearly 30′ above the normal ocean level. When I say “wall”, I mean wall. It was the highest ever recorded and was centered at Bay St. Louis, MS to the west of nearby Gulfport. Pass Christian, MS, which is in the same general area, had experienced the previous high surge of 23′ during Hurricane Camille in 1969. Most residents never expected to experience that again, yet, it happened and was even more catastrophic. Many were caught unprepared despite the warnings.

Most residents had the good sense to evacuate, as Ms. Ruth did, to stay with family and friends away from the storm. Some chose to ride it out and met their demise. The houses were spray painted with designations where bodies were found as well as for flood water levels. The storm related total death count was officially updated by researchers in the following years to 1866, authorities in both LA and MS stated they really had no way of knowing with certainty and that it was undoubtedly much higher. In Ms. Ruth’s neighborhood we counted eight death markings on houses.

Into this environment we went. Four doors down was the neighborhood crack dealer who openly sat in an old lawn chair at the curb in front of his residence waiting on customers to drive up. Which they did about 5-10 times per day. He would stick his head in the car, go back into his house, come back out where he would stick his head and hand back in the car, slide the money into his pocket and sit back into his chair. All while the local police openly patrolled the area in marked cars. They had to see and had to know, but did nothing. We found out why later through a discussion with an off duty officer from a nearby town who was helping with the relief. The city had told the officers to not bother with arresting small time offenders and focus on the major ones while providing full protection to the many hundreds of relief workers scattered throughout the city.

Regardless of our surroundings we knew we were safe as nobody, including crack dealers and local thugs, messed with Ms. Ruth. She was the matriarch of the neighborhood and well known throughout the city. Besides that, the residents were generally happy to see us and encouraged by our presence. We seemed to lift their spirits as they could see light at the end of the tunnel. Some would come by the job sites to offer us water, food and prayers.

As we set up at Ms. Ruth’s we were met by her in what had been her living room. She had the biggest smile and warmest welcome we could have ever hoped to experience. She hugged everybody, talked some about the community, and then asked everybody to join in a circle, hold hands and she would lead us in prayer.

She nearly prayed the house down. We knew the Holy Spirit had entered that place. The energy was amazing. She then headed back out to go to her nearby church for some scheduled activities that day and to get out of the heat.

There were some of us who understood what happened. There were others whose eyes were as wide as saucers. There were a couple of folks who had not yet accepted Christ as their personal Savior, one of which had been a wavering skeptic who worked for our business banking operation. The looks on their faces were priceless. The comments and sincere questioning throughout the ensuing days as we labored were just as interesting. Every heart was opened.

After we arrived back at the church for a shower and dinner that first day, we held our own devotional and discussion period before getting some sleep. Everybody who had been assigned to Ms. Ruth’s team wanted to continue working there despite the CC giving daily assignments. We wanted to move her rebuild forward as fast as possible. We asked our contractor team leader to talk with the CC for that assignment for the rest of our time there. We agreed that the sooner we could get her back into her home, the sooner that neighborhood would receive the full benefit of her presence. Ms. Ruth could spend more of her time and open her home to the hurting, women’s prayer circle and other church outreach ministries as she had done pre-storm. The CC honored our request.

The Work

I will finish this part with a short discussion about the work. The flood waters had made the homes uninhabitable. The mold was high; so the interior walls, insulation, wiring, plumbing, etc. had to be demo’d. All of that had already been done prior to our arrival. In addition, the remaining structure had to be treated for the mold and time allowed for it to all dry out after the new roof was installed. Ms. Ruth’s house was built about 4 blocks high on its raised foundation, which was unusual for its period of construction and very helpful as it improved the ventilation under the home. As a result, nearly all of the floor joists and a large amount of the original planked sub floor were still in good shape after treatment and drying out.

There were two teams assigned during the week. Some in both groups handled the dry wall finish and others of us handled the subfloors, exterior punch list and lot clean up. I opted for the later as I have never cared for dry wall finish. Our team leader contractor had secured good quality plywood instead of particle board for the subfloor that we screwed in while leveling as needed. Nothing but the best for Ms. Ruth! As that was finished I rotated out to the exterior of the home and lot for minor repairs and clean up. It was amazing the amount of broken glass that I found on that small lot and driveway.

My contractor friend would get reassigned occasionally to other jobs. If a two – four man job, I would head out with him. As a result, we ended up doing jobs all the way from Biloxi to Pass Christian. The further west we traveled the worse the storm surge damage. Pass Christian was wiped out. Every home and business suffered major damage to total destruction. A town with a population of about 7000 people was reduced to 2000 a year later. I still remember the only thing I saw standing along the beach highway in the center of town. It was a McDonald’s sign that was perpendicular to the shore with severe damage to the sign, but still distinguishable. The only homes that survived for miles in either direction of downtown were located well back from the beach behind the levee. Most homes behind the levee still had blue tarp roofs. There were a handful of concrete block walled buildings still standing, but the roofs, windows and doors were gone. A handful of live oak trees made it through it all. Other than the streets and some concrete foundation pads, that was it.

Meanwhile back at Ms. Ruth’s the rest of the team were getting prayed up by her to start each day. Every afternoon they were given the best homemade lemonade from her that was made from the fruit of a lemon tree in her front yard. On our next to last scheduled work day, we all did a full blitz on her home to take it as far as we could for the next week’s team to be able to do cabinets, fixtures and painting. It was that day when Ms. Ruth beckoned me over to have some of her lemonade. She invited me inside her trailer. I guess she sensed that I had been concerned for her situation and prayed daily for her well being and that of the residents and business owners around the area.

Conclusion

I wanted to listen to what this great woman had to say. I wanted to just take in the experience through her eyes and heart as I knew I would probably never see her again until we each arrived in Heaven.

“May the work that I have done, speak for me.” Until next time…

Lean on me, friend.