With the lead up to Independence Day and the 250 year celebrations well underway, I am using this daily to review one of the most important documents written in history in this author’s opinion.
One more time, let’s a look back at the author of the Declaration of Independence. Let’s venture into the mind of Thomas Jefferson as he wrote it and pay close attention to the immortal words that give definition to mankind in our great nation. The same words that every founding father who signed the document left untouched that flowed from TJ’s mind to the pen and onto the paper.
When in the Course of human events, it becomes necessary for one people to dissolve the political bands which have connected them with another, and to assume among the powers of the earth, the separate and equal station to which the Laws of Nature and of Nature’s God entitle them, a decent respect to the opinions of mankind requires that they should declare the causes which impel them to the separation.
We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.–That to secure these rights, Governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed, –That whenever any Form of Government becomes destructive of these ends, it is the Right of the People to alter or to abolish it, and to institute new Government, laying its foundation on such principles and organizing its powers in such form, as to them shall seem most likely to effect their Safety and Happiness. Prudence, indeed, will dictate that Governments long established should not be changed for light and transient causes; and accordingly all experience hath shewn, that mankind are more disposed to suffer, while evils are sufferable, than to right themselves by abolishing the forms to which they are accustomed. But when a long train of abuses and usurpations, pursuing invariably the same Object evinces a design to reduce them under absolute Despotism, it is their right, it is their duty, to throw off such Government, and to provide new Guards for their future security.–Such has been the patient sufferance of these Colonies; and such is now the necessity which constrains them to alter their former Systems of Government. The history of the present King of Great Britain is a history of repeated injuries and usurpations, all having in direct object the establishment of an absolute Tyranny over these States. To prove this, let Facts be submitted to a candid world.
In my opinion, those are two of the most important and world shaking paragraphs ever written outside of the words of the Bible.
We need to better understand Thomas Jefferson as a person at age 33. We have questions. Why did he write these words the way he did? Why did all fifty five of the other founding fathers sign the document as written without change in that section? Knowing that may offer clues about its content. Knowing that might reveal who our nation is envisioned to be.
Perspective
To begin we need to consider what the childhood of young Thomas was like. What events and people helped influence him to write those words?
I contend that his parents, Peter and Jane, laid the groundwork for his beliefs with how they approached life and raised him. The hands that rocked the cradle, who introduced him to open dealings and helping all people regardless of station in life and culture, were the guiding force. The parents who introduced and routinely broke bread in their home with their friend, Ostenaco, the prominent Cherokee Chief, as well as associated with the early patriots in the area who became vitally important to the independence movement. These neighboring colonists made great impressions on him. These same parents worked hard, became guardians of the children of a deceased friend for a number of years, and operated both plantations during the period. They kept order in their home, on the properties, among the slaves and in their business dealings. These were the people who made sure the children of both families were educated by tutors, taught music and art, and encouraged to be well read even though neither had personally been given that opportunity in their youths. They were often seen enjoying community dances and events as a family.
For more insight, review the following from Wiki that was recorded byThomas Jefferson from his student days at William and Mary College:
While in Williamsburg, Timberlake and Ostenaco attended a dinner party at William & Mary College at which Ostenaco professed his desire to meet the king of England. A young Thomas Jefferson, then a student at the college, later wrote of Ostenaco:
“I knew much of the great Outassete (Ostenaco), the warrior and orator of the Cherokee. He was always the guest of my father on his journeys to and from Williamsburg. I was in his camp when he made his great farewell oration to his people the evening before he departed for England. The moon was in full splendour, and to her he seemed to address himself in his prayers for his own safety on the voyage and that of his people during his absence. His sounding voice, distinct articulation, animated action, and the solemn silence of his people at their several fires, filled me with awe and veneration, although I did not understand a single word he uttered.”
You can see from their actions and words that Thomas and his parents exhibited selfless, giving attitudes and actions not unlike those that many of our founding fathers and mothers gave our young nation years later.
This upbringing led to his acceptance of all people regardless of who they were, their culture or their beliefs. It developed a curiosity to learn more, grow, build relationships and to have a strong work ethic. It was an easy transition for Thomas to become a supporter of the Enlightenment movement as he entered William & Mary and the law firm mentorship that awaited him at an impressionable age after his father died.
This Age of Enlightenment period produced an intellectual movement in Europe during the late 17th to the late 18th centuries that emphasized reason, science, and individual liberty over tradition and religious authority. This led to new ideas in philosophy, politics, and science; which in turn led to major social and political changes.
The colonies became fertile ground for the movement within education and leadership circles. It was also a study in contrasts that Thomas noted and adapted into his own observations and writings. The first Great Awakening of Christianity in the colonies had been initiated by Jonathon Edwards and continued by George Whitefield, John Wesley and others. The two life changing movements were basically occurring during the same period and awakening the minds and souls of colonists to a desire for better relations with all people. They sparked the fire that later raged within the hearts of American patriots.
Once again, we see the patriot movement leading to the formation of a new nation with a unique system of governing while running parallel with the increasing commitment of the patriots to Christianity and its principles.
Hand meet glove.
The Declaration of Independence reflects both Enlightenment and Christian principles within the content of the writing of Thomas Jefferson. The authority of God over nations and peoples is stated as well as the authority and responsibility of mankind to rule itself and throw off oppressive governments.
As it applies to the colonies, in summary, Thomas was convinced that all mankind was quite capable of leading and governing themselves reasonably without dependence on Kings, royalty, and oppressive totalitarian forms of government. He had become a lawyer under the training and mentorship of George Wythe, learned science and governing philosophies of royal Governor Francis Fauquier, as well as increasing knowledge about medicine and empiricism from William Small. He developed a close friendship and association for life with future Constitution framer and POTUS, James Madison. Jefferson did not even feel the need to return from his post in France to work on and sign the Constitution because of the connection between the two men. All of these relationships provided major influence and support that informed his thought processes. He had become a scholar of many areas of life during those times.
He was also well in tune with the common man and truly listened and observed. The obvious evidence of this was the huge margin of victory in his second term election to POTUS, a margin that has never been repeated in election history for the position. His popularity as well as that of Madison led to the formation of the Jeffersonian Republican Party, which was formally known as the Democratic-Republican Party, and control of Congress as well as the POTUS for over two decades. The common people loved Thomas Jefferson and knew he had their backs.
It is with this understanding, along with his quiet observations from the words of other founding fathers during those days in Independence Hall that he authored those opening words above that set the basis for American life forever. The references to God are numerous as well as mankind’s responsibilities to each other. This sets the tone for the entire document.
There exists a sadness in the recognition that “all men are created equal” did not mean slaves of any skin color or culture at that point in our nation’s history. That came later and nearly all of the founding fathers expressed their understanding that the end of the practice was coming. However, Thomas recognized the plight of the enslaved and treated his own with compassion that including educating and keeping them together as families, while releasing them later in his life as society accepted it. In fact, despite his own wealth and standing in our national affairs, the aristocratic elites were never comfortable with Thomas Jefferson and his views of the world as I discussed in American Stories.
What It Means
To determine what it means to us 250 years later, we need to apply the words to our nation and lives today. Do any of the words we read sound temporary or only applicable to the times of that Revolutionary War period? Are there universal truths layered within that are timeless and interconnected with today?
Until the final two sentences of the subject text presented above there is no particular mention of the actual oppressors of Great Britain and the King. The words describe conditions that dictate actions by the people to produce better circumstances and consequences. There is no mention of class, station, race, culture, etc. of the people to which it applied. It might as well have been written for a different place, nation and time as it was then for the colonies.
That means that he and the signers viewed the text could be universally applied to this nation no matter the conditions or time period. Which coincidently, is exactly what has happened over the period and is happening within the America First MAGA movement today. The oppression from the cabal’s New World Order, Rules Based Order and other coercive attacks on humanity is being cast off as the Crown was cast off 243 years ago with the end of the war using this same understanding.
As the Declaration text indicates, it is our duty as American citizens to cast off all oppression and renew our government back into the principles of our founding documents in the spirit of our unanimously united signers of the Declaration of Independence.
As a personal observation, Thomas Jefferson and I have major differences in thought unrelated to the big picture of nation building and the Declaration. I am certain I would have found myself on the side of Alexander Hamilton relating to the economy and our nation’s business growth. From my many years in business and banking I am certain that innovation and manufacturing are primary drivers of wealth creation and it matters little who does the investing into our country as long as they do it The American Way and We the People receive great benefit.
That understanding is probably why I fully support the approach #45-47 has been charting and with most other initiatives he has undertaken. He is the most consequential POTUS since Abraham Lincoln in my opinion. The parallels regarding education, accomplishments and orientation toward all peoples from his youth throughout life is remarkable. The support of We the People for him is similar to Jefferson. He has our backs, we have his.
I look forward to the addition of his image on Mount Rushmore; joining the great Thomas Jefferson.
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Before all things and people – In God We Trust. Also, trust Trump and the plan.










Excellent! I love the recognition of the dual foundation of the Enlightenment and the Great Awakening – that explains so much!
Jefferson was an amazing man, but he was FORGED by an amazing country that was in the process of being born!
TY, Wolf.That foundation makes us who we are intended to be. We must fight to stay on the path. 👊
AMEN!!!
Just to quickly repeat a warning I made on yesterday’s thread – beware the new bags of M&Ms – they are a kind of “woke” paper that breaks easily.
I didn’t know they were already being sold.
I’m not sure if any or all of the following are true….
The paper is definitely different, and not in a good way. The M&Ms themselves seemed a bit different, but again, could be my imagination.
From the open:
I agree. Realizing their import gives me chills. I’m looking forward to reading the rest of the article.
👍 🇺🇸
Love it! Another great one from GaRRRison!
Saw this at Marica’s:
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Patriots… connect the dots.
It started with the White House posting:
“White House will be Q posting today…
And by Q we mean Quantum. Stay tuned 👀”
Then the Dept of War / War Room engaged — including a meme with President Trump and a prominent Q.
Later the White House dropped their own mock-up Q-style post: “Q is for quantum 😉”
But here’s where it gets wild:
The White House Deputy War Room Director (Bobby Levy) quote-tweeted the original post with:
“Activation word: Ronald McDonald”
That exact phrase and meme didn’t come out of nowhere. It was originally posted by Elon Musk back on November 4, 2024 — in a video where at the 37-second mark, “Q” appears on screen and says the activation word: Ronald McDonald.
They’re using the same activation codes Elon dropped years ago. From the White House. From the Dept of War. From Elon.
Why is the White House and the Department of War engaging the Q community with memes, mock Q posts, and activation words if it’s supposedly “just a joke”?
And why has the mainstream media asked President Trump zero questions about any of this today?
We’re watching it all unfold in real time.
WWG1WGA
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In the comments, Praying Medic asked for a link to the video referred to here:
I don’t remember seeing the video before, but first it spells “PATRIQTS” with a Q, and then all the other letters except the Q disappear, leaving the Q plain as day, with the audio saying “activation word: Ronald McDonald.“
I can only access the video here:
https://nitter.poast.org/NewsBlast17
Because it’s nitter, I can’t copy and bring it here, but someone else probably could access the original.
Thank you, that was interesting.
Change the ‘https://nitter.poast.org/NewsBlast17’ to
Thank you!
TT, you like logic, so here’s some.
That video was posted by Elon on November 4, 2024. That was after Trump had made fries, etc. as a campaign appearance at McDonald’s, thus “activating” voters.
His communications team now is perfectly aware, if they are worth anything, of the Q phenomenon (whether they controlled it or not), and they can certainly use it as a “marketing” tool. We are getting crank-yanked by experts in the field. The best of the best.
I for one am about over it with the “Q interpreters” who haven’t been right about “it’s habbening” since the beginning. It’s a grift.
I agree that they are aware of all the Q followers, but I don’t read anything into the posting of actual references to Q as anything other than a confirmation that Q came from Trump’s people, as is evident in the drops, and that they might be reaching out to those who followed Q in a gesture of communication and encouragement to let us know that they are doing things that we are not yet aware of.
I don’t care about Q decoders. When references come straight from people within the administration, I don’t need decoders. I also don’t see references to Q as grifting. People on social media will no doubt try to grift off of this, but the material that was brought here merely presents what was posted, without interpretation as to its meaning, and without predictions. It would be odd to not take note of what is being said, especially on The QTree.
I also think these kinds of references could be people in the administration making fun of all the media pundits who scoffed at Q. It could be an in-your-face series of references that will drive them crazy. If Q is a psyop, as is believed, then there are multiple ways it could be used, for varying purposes.
From the administration, of course it’s not a grift. It’s marketing. It’s engagement for their program. Maybe psyop too.
But Praying Medic is not in the administration. Neither is @atNewsBlast17. “Connect the dots” is the grift. They make money from followers on X. With no “news” about Q, they lose money.
I understand that, but when the administration is posting references, I don’t think the rest of us should ignore them just because some might use them for their own purposes. That has been happening since the beginning.
All Praying Medic did was ask to see the video, which is exactly what I did. I don’t follow him and don’t know what he will do with this information, but whatever he does will not affect me.
IMO there are no dots to connect. These references are to Q as in “quantum,” and they give nods to the Q drops. Two facts, nothing more. I don’t think people across the administration are pulling our chains. At the least, they are showing that they are aware of “the Q community.” That could be viewed as something encouraging, or it could be seen as marketing and jerking our chains. I subscribe to the former because I don’t see Pres. Trump or his administration as entities that ridicule or take advantage of their own supporters. YMMV.
I didn’t say “pulling our chains.” I said “crank yanking.” A phrase you may be unfamiliar with, but which has a definite meaning.
Someone “yanking the crank” refers to the way an automobile engine used to be fired. So when I say they are yanking my crank, I mean they are trying to fire up my engine. Which is, in my view, “marketing,’ to stir a response they desire.
And I’m worn out by it. President Trump exists in the world of politics, which means manipulation. It may be necessary, but I don’t have to like it.
Gail brought the “Quantum” post here yesterday. I’d like to see these, if anyone has them:
This can’t be coincidence.
Exactly, it can’t be a coincidence, so at the very least, whoever is posting it has enough knowledge about Q to mess with us 😁
It was about the executive order by POTUS to accelerate research into Quantum computing.
The White House may have trolled Q-Paitriots.
In fact, I have not yet seen a new Q-post on the Q-Board.
Actually I think the leader of Q is dead. His name was Rich Higgins He wrote a memo that got him fired by traitors within Trump 45. He started a company and died in feb2022.
The Memo: https://unconstrainedanalytics.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/Political-Warfare.pdf
His Obit
https://unconstrainedanalytics.org/richard-higgins/
Rich Higgins: https://www.theqtree.com/2023/08/02/dear-kag-20230802-open-thread/#comment-1132859
2 others I think who were on the Q team are Ezra Cohen Watnick
and Col Derek Harvey.
You are our resident Q expert.
Nobody else is even close.
I am most certainly not an expert on Q. I have a casual knowledge. Emerald Star, having occupied the chan Boards, has a much better understanding.
I Miss Q!
Emerald Star has a branch of the Q-tree?
Yes. these days posts as, ES.
You’ve got it. Crank-yanking by experts.
X-22 has the others:
Thanks!
These all seem to be referring to quantum technology. That last one is not an actual Q drop but is made to look like one. At the least, it’s worthy of note, IMO.
I think it is all in fun.
Remember a Reporter asked POTUS about Q(anon) during the first Admin. IIRC he said something like, “I don’t know much about it except they seem to like me.”
So POTUS has acknowledge Q followers are his supporters. Why in Hades would he intentionally piss them off?
I agree.
I find it fascinating that the word “quantum” never appears in any real Q drops.
The Dark Knight:
I’m sure it was zero going to the poor.
No one hates the poor more than the Left.
In fact, I’d say no one hates the poor except the Left.
Dumocrats AND Deep State keeping them alive.
Communism was a construct of the Brits. (British Empire) it was very, very useful in convincing the American People to shed blood and money for ‘Regime Change’ Change that normally ended up with a dictator selling the country’s raw materials to the oligarchs (Transnational corporations)
How the British Invented Communism (And Blamed It on the Jews)
A Port-o-Pot at a concert with a half million people on a hot summer day ought to be one of the choices.
Ought??? How about is???
Rep. Anna Paulina Luna:
I applaud them. There are a number in the House, as well as Mike Lee and maybe a few other senators, who keep trying. I think 25 is a low number, but maybe it is enough to keep bills from passing.
Why does no one require the traitor RINOs to publicly declare WHY they oppose fair elections.
No one even bothers to ask, much less get them on the record.
They’re just allowed to do it, without explanation or cause.
Make sure that letter is very sternly worded, you fraud.
[snort]
And he cannot plead the fifth.
Since he is no longer working for the Federal government I believe he can. Think Hillary Clinton…
Nice argument!
Too much truth right there!!!
Firing squads are now the primary means of execution in Idaho. These articles don’t mention the crime of child rape. Maybe it is a death penalty offense.
https://www.idahostatesman.com/news/local/crime/article316066906.html
https://deathpenaltyinfo.org/idaho-governor-signs-legislation-authorizing-firing-squad-as-states-primary-execution-method
I found this:
Legal Conflict: The U.S. Supreme Court ruled in 2008 (Kennedy v. Louisiana) that the death penalty for child rape is unconstitutional if no homicide occurs. Idaho lawmakers passed this bill hoping the current Supreme Court will overturn that decision. [1, 2, 3, 4]
If Thomas says something on that subject, we’ll know it’s going to happen.
Unconstitutional to kill a child rapist but constitutional to kill babies. Makes perfect sense 🙄😡
America First Legal:
I really like Ken Paxton. I hope he is not twisted by his time in DC. If he continues as he is I could see voting for him as president in the future.
The SCIF:
NYT carries on the tradition of gaslighting the American People in aid of the Commies.
Remember:
I wonder when Google AI will say the same about the NYT & Russia, Russia Russia?
This is the current bafflegab:
The New York Times shared a 2018 Pulitzer Prize for coverage of Russian election interference. Donald Trump continuously condemned the reporting as a “hoax” and sued the Pulitzer Board for libel. The Pulitzer Board reviewed the articles multiple times and upheld the award. [1, 2, 3, 4, 5]
The core conflict and facts involve:
You can track the ongoing case proceedings through Reuters or read the Pulitzer Board’s Statement regarding its reviews of the prizes. [1]
What a stupid petty response by the Demon Rats.
Now the Reflecting Pool needs to be guarded.
(It wouldn’t surprise me at all, if Obama himself is directing this effort, since DJT targeted him for the bad the job he had done)
AMEN!!!
She is back.
Ro Khanna is now freaking out and desperately trying to backtrack after Elon threatened to sue him for lying that DOGE is responsible for millions of deaths
“Debate me instead of threatening lawfare!”
He should’ve thought about that before demanding Elon be subpoenaed and investigated
All the sudden he’s against lawfare
Imagine that https://x.com/RoKhanna/status/2069154308055093598/video/1
Nothing else except the threat of loss of money gets through, so sue his ass into poverty as an example to others.
Just the lawsuit will cost him money and keep him busy. Of course he will weep crocodile tears and RANT about the rich…
From Google AI:
Net Worth
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Google:
MURA Holdings LLC is a private investment firm based in Beachwood, Ohio, founded in 2009 by entrepreneur and former Transtar Industries CEO Monte Ahuja. The firm focuses on acquiring and partnering with US-based businesses with revenues of up to $100 million.
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MURA Holdings LLC
….
I wonder if Ro going after Elon has anything to do with Daddy-in-law.
At about :08 he refers to Elon as “the world’s richest person,” but that’s not relevant at all. Elon is an individual who was smeared. He has the right to stand up for himself no matter how rich or poor he is.
RO KANA is just A KORAN in disguise!
RE: Tucker
My theory on Tucker is that for years on the major networks he had producers who protected him against his own worst instincts.
Then when he went out on his own he was able to fully indulge those instincts, wallowing in them, and he’s turned into a white male Candace Owens as a result.
The insane laugh should have tipped us off a long time ago, sadly.
Update: Mom passed away last evening. Her struggles are over.
🙏 for you and your family, Pat. May the Lord give you strength and peace during this time.
thank you TB.
I’m so sorry to hear about this.
Your mother is now with God.
Sending Deep Comfort, Deep Peace, Condolences and hugs to you and yours.
thanks, I appreciate it.
My Condolences. Prayers for you and your family.
thanks Gail.
You are very welcome. Please take care of yourself.
I will. We were supposed to go visit her again this weekend. It’s almost a blessing things happened as they have. My last memories of her will be that brief time she “came out of” the morphine haze and was “there”if that makes sense. I’ll remember her smiling, me feeding her the apple pie i made for her and then me holding her hand and telling her i loved her and her saying she loved me too.
That is truly a blessing. I am happy for you that your memories of your Mom are of love for each other.
That is a very good memory to hold close.
Please, hold tight onto that memory!
i intend too!
I’m glad you have that final memory of Mom being Mom, no matter how brief. Both my parents died during the covid lockdowns (thankfully NOT from covid) and hospital restrictions precluded all except one family member from visiting. As with you & Valerie Curran in your current losses, I accept ‘what is’ and try not to dwell on how I wish our goodbyes could have been.
Blessings on you, Pat, and may you find comfort in the ways you loved & supported your Mom. 🩷
thanks Alison, I appreciate that.
Wow that is pretty similar to my last memory of my dad. I’m glad you had that last time with her being present with you 💔 ❤ 💔
Those are very good memories.
ones I’ll cherish.
Pat and family, condolences and prayers,
thanks kal.
Oh, I am so sorry.
She is in the divine presence of Jesus now, at rest.
I will pray for peace for you and your family.
thank you Aubergine.
Our condolences and hugs!!!
thanks jim.
Pat…words fail me. I’m so sorry. Sending a hug. 💗 💔
thanks Molly.
I am so sorry Pat! May the LORD comfort you and your family on your loss! 🙏🙏🙏
thank you Firefly.
For pat and her family:
thank you.
😥, Prayers for you and your family.
thank Brave and Free.
I’m so sorry, Pat. My prayers of comfort and peace for you and your family.
thank you Linda.
My condolences to you and your family. I will continue to pray for your comfort and strength, as well as the navigation through all the necessary practicalities. May God bless you. 🙏💐
thank you TT.
I will be holding you and your family close in prayer at this difficult time. Peace be with you and yours.
thank you Brrezzy. I appreciate that.
I am happy for Mom – she is at peace – and I hope and pray you will be, too !!!
PRAYERS UP FOR YOU AND FAMILY !!! 🙏 🙏 🙏
thanks duchess. i appreciate it.
My condolences, Pat. Lots of love to you.
thanks Happy.
I am so sorry Pat. Prayers and peace for you and your family.
thanks Holly. I appreciate it.
Oh Pat I am so sorry that your mom passed. So glad you made her life be filled with love & laughter as she was winding down her earthly journey. I wonder if our parents have actually met each other in Glory 💔 ❤ 💔 May God be with you in comfort & peace
Amen!
thank you Valerie.
I wish I could hug you irl & I’m so sorry that you are going through this loss 😢
right back at you.
Mom was 87 and although she always said she wanted to live to be 100, we saw some decline in her memory last year. That’s when i really started making the moments count. I brought her her favorite foods, baked her favorite treats, we played rummy and laughed–boy did we laugh. and I repeatedly told her i loved her.
That’s so beautiful Pat. You gave all you could to her in love & joy & now you have these precious memories. God is good.
My dad was 87 too & almost one month past his birthday when he passed. He was joyful to the end even as his body & mind betrayed him. He breathed his last as my niece was playing guitar & singing worship songs, ushering him into God’s presence.
It’s still hard for me. Today is exactly 2 weeks since he died…
HUGS!!!
sometimes we have no warning that things are ending, but in Mom’s case when we were told hospice was needed, we didn’t count on 5-6 months. I didn’t count on 5-6 weeks. I called every day, I sent cards and we increased our visits. I didn’t want regrets, i wanted good memories so i made sure I made them.
You were wiser & more diligent than I was. When I last saw Dad my SIL said that hospice thought he had about 3 weeks from that point but he was gone in one. I wanted to go back again but not necessarily alone & several of my family didn’t want to see him again because they either had a good last memory to hold on to or because the last time they’d seen him it was already too hard to see him so declined. I should have pressed harder or sucked it up & gone out there on my own.
Feeding my dad like one of my babies was a pretty hard last memory, but at least we each said “I love you” for when I kissed Mom & said that she was already beyond speech & the look in her eyes didn’t say she even knew who I was or what was happening around her.
I’m glad our parents are free from the sorrows & weights of this world & from whatever was causing their bodies &/or minds to slip away. It’s still not easy to ponder. 💔
I had a best friend from high school who committed suicide right after Christmas his freshman year in college. He called and wanted to get together but i was “too busy” to see him. I have regretted that decision my whole life since. I made a promise to him at the funeral that i would never let another I love you go unsaid. I have kept that vow. I say it often and mean it.
Time is never guaranteed.
Wow Pat that is a very heavy experience to withstand at such a young age. The fact that it has enabled you to be more fully invested in those love relationships is one of those Beauty for Ashes redemptive perspectives.
it taught me to not let things go unsaid because you just never know.
I hope you can find peace Valerie! and joy in memories and pictures.
be kind to yourself.
I love you!
Thanks Pat. I’m intermittently peaceful, though Very Tired. It has been a bizarre & exhausting process so far.
I’m really sad about your mom & hoped that you would have had so much more time with her. What a blessing that you had such a “seize the day” view & made every visit, every moment, count.
I love you too & send you hugs & prayers. God will help us both get through Whatever this turns into…
This past year, when brother and SIL decided mom needed memory care–they sold her house and either sold or kept all her belongings. That was last September. I was furious at the time, but unable to do anything, but i was spared being painfully reminded about memories and mementos–and the process of getting rid of things that Mom had. You had to go thru things, claim what you wanted, and that made you grieve every time you had to make a decision.
I don’t know if I’ll ever get any of Mom’s things but if I do, I know i will grieve all over again…if that makes any sense.
Makes perfect sense. I was angry with you about how your bro & SIL managed things back then–unconscionable!
In my case neither of my brothers seemed to want hardly Anything from either our childhood home or the Cottage. I think they just wanted to liquidate everything quickly to get the house on the market ASAP so it might bring in top dollar (which could also end up helping me purchase the Cottage more “easily”). However the “reasonable time frame” in which such actions should be taken, per the Trust documents, doesn’t appear to apply to me & my needs in any way. It was impossible to go through 6-9 decades (there were childhood things of theirs in the house) of pack-rat stuff in under a week & less than 2 weeks since Dad died. I’m frankly still reeling.
I have a huge amount of photos & documents to sort & store or pitch or transform into displays, scrapbooks, whatever as well as process genealogically–for this I am grateful, in part, & overwhelmed in part. I tried not to be “actively” grieving in the “get it before they pitch it…or sell it” phase because it was so physically & time-crunch taxing. I still just start shaking sometimes just thinking about everything.
I’m sorry that you & your brother are to some degree estranged by whatever offended him historically that your mom wouldn’t enlighten you about. I hope that at some point you will be able to reconcile with him/them as they are allegedly family. In our case my husband has come to view my bro/SIL as enemies, but when he takes his issues to the Lord he can approach some kind of peace. It helps him to view what’s happening as some type of business relationship…I don’t really know what helps me. I try to communicate w/out emotionally charged language but I am hurting A Lot now.
Hang in there. Thankfully you have nothing to regret about how you loved and cared for your mom to the best of your abilities. I’m so glad you could say “I love you” to each other the last time you were together, as I could w/ Dad. When my mom died last year the last day I saw her alive was Mother’s Day & though I said those words to her she could no longer speak. While she could still speak in one of our previous visits I was asking her if God was helping her in her difficult situation. She paused for a bit & then replied quite softly “a little”. I told her I thought it was good that she sensed His help, even in small ways, rather than no awareness at all of His active love for her as her life was ebbing.
Thanks for talking with me about where you are at as we are now on somewhat parallel grief sagas. Though I would not wish the process upon Anyone, it is a strange sort of blessing to trod a similar path to such a “sister of the heart” as you are to me. I love you & God will help us both, thankfully, as we are Not Alone in our sorrows. 💔 ❤ 💔
part of the situation with my brother is my fault. When SIL told me mom needed to go to Memory Care and that they were going to turn the house over to Medicare, I said…don’t! I knew my brother was the executor of her will–I said I researched it and as POA he could sell it in her stead and use that money to pay for her care. Which is what they did. what i didn’t realize was the swiftness and totalitarian way they did it. SIL’s friend was a realtor–they cleaned out the house, had it on the market for a week and sold it.
When they were contemplating turning it over to Medicare, I was texting SIL about things that should be removed from the house first–mementos, antiques, and the like–telling them what mom had promised me for years.
whether or not they kept any of it, is a mystery as my cousin told me there was a large dumpster outside the house for a week. sigh
I’ve resigned myself that those things are just gone–like a great fire consumed them and i am moving past it.
Talking with you has also helped ease my pain and clarified my thoughts. I love you and am always here to talk!
May God Bless you and heal you!
I wouldn’t look at that as your “fault” more like your insights influenced their trajectory but their approach seems pretty unethical, or at least extremely insensitive, especially to your needs & stated desires for some of your mom’s possessions. I’m so sorry!
I don’t think my bro is responsible for my emotional upheaval but he has 4 daughters so should/could have an inkling of needing to tread lightly in tough arenas with girls because of how we tend to be wired differently than guys.
For my kids my parents are the Only grandparents they have known in this life so I wanted them to have any/everything out of Dad’s house they wanted. The only inheritance coming to our family is from my side (unless either of Michael’s very well off brothers chooses to leave him anything when their time comes, but they both have kids & one a spouse, middle bro had a painful divorce). Both sets of my SILs’ parents are still living so both of my bros’ families should/could potentially have further inheritances, so our families are in different material situations. I hate that some of the upheaval is connected to stuff, which is so darn cliché…sigh!
Time will tell, & distance from events can help us heal a bit too, but Mostly God & His grace poured out in our myriad needs. I’m trying not to be unforgiving or let bitterness grow but I’m currently bruised, battered, & exhausted.
When are your Mom’s services?
she didn’t want any services sadly. Nothing. Her ashes will be interred next to Dad. That leads to another problem…there were 2 keys to the mausoleum and I asked my SIL for the second key, so we could visit Mom & Dad whenever we were in town. Now they say they can’t find the second key…sigh. I told them to ask the Memorial Center if another key can be made and I would pay for it. they”ll “let me know”.
Good Grief Pat. I’m so sorry 🙁
we told both our children, that they are co-executors of our estate. make the decisions together. figure it out.
Nice. We’re learning from our lived experience for we don’t want Anything like this to happen to our kids when we’re both gone! KISS 😉 😉
yup.
HUGS Valerie!
Very sorry to hear this.
thank you.
May God bless you and your family, and may your mother now be at peace, in His loving arms. 🙏
Your account of your last visit with her brought tears to my eyes. That is the way it should be. 💖
thanks Wolf. That memory will sustain me till we meet again.
Another excellent read TB. Thanks.
Jefferson’s opening paragraphs superb, then AND now.
As I read them, I thought of the UK, oppressing UK citizens today.
Doubtful UK citizens have read those words. They should. They need to.
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Conceptually with tweaking, applicable to Iran. ~47 years of IRGC oppressing Iranians.
TY. You made some some good observations, bud. People around the world need to grow-a-cet. What good does it do them to be willing slaves to evil masters? That’s not living.
Live free or die – always.
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1 John 4:15 (KJV)
COMMENTARY FOR 1 JOHN 4:15
Believers cautioned against giving heed to every one that pretends to the Spirit. (1-6) Brotherly love enforced. (7-21)
14-21 The Father sent the Son, he willed his coming into this world. The apostle attests this. And whosoever shall confess that Jesus is the Son of God, God dwelleth in him, and he in God. This confession includes faith in the heart as the foundation; makes acknowledgment with the mouth to the glory of God and Christ, and profession in the life and conduct, against the flatteries and frowns of the world. There must be a day of universal judgment. Happy those who shall have holy boldness before the Judge at that day; knowing he is their Friend and Advocate! Happy those who have holy boldness in the prospect of that day, who look and wait for it, and for the Judge’s appearance! True love to God assures believers of God’s love to them. Love teaches us to suffer for him and with him; therefore we may trust that we shall also be glorified with him, #2Ti 2:12|. We must distinguish between the fear of God and being afraid of him; the fear of God imports high regard and veneration for God. Obedience and good works, done from the principle of love, are not like the servile toil of one who unwillingly labours from dread of a master’s anger. They are like that of a dutiful child, who does services to a beloved father, which benefit his brethren, and are done willingly. It is a sign that our love is far from perfect, when our doubts, fears, and apprehensions of God, are many. Let heaven and earth stand amazed at his love. He sent his word to invite sinners to partake of this great salvation. Let them take the comfort of the happy change wrought in them, while they give him the glory. The love of God in Christ, in the hearts of Christians from the Spirit of adoption, is the great proof of conversion. This must be tried by its effects on their temper, and their conduct to their brethren. If a man professes to love God, and yet indulges anger or revenge, or shows a selfish disposition, he gives his profession the lie. But if it is plain that our natural enmity is changed into affection and gratitude, let us bless the name of our God for this seal and earnest of eternal happiness. Then we differ from the false professors, who pretend to love God, whom they have not seen, yet hate their brethren, whom they have seen.
Commentary by Matthew Henry, 1710.
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Walking Through the Dark with the Creator of the Stars
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Thank You, Jesus, for blessings received and prayers answered !!!
WE ARE FIGHTING A SPIRITUAL WAR OF GOOD VERSUS EVIL
PRAYING ON THE ARMOR OF GOD
Father God, I now follow your command to put on the full armor of God, because my battle is not against flesh and blood but against rulers, authorities, the powers of this dark world and against spiritual forces of evil in the unseen world.
I first pray on the Belt of Truth that it may be buckled around my waist, may I be centered and encircled by your truth dear Lord. Hem me inside all that is true and right, and may I be protected and held up by the truth of your living word, in my Lord Jesus name.
I pray on the Breastplate of righteousness, please protect my vital organs and my inner man, cover my integrity, my spirit, and my soul. Guard my heart for it is the wellspring of life, please strengthen and guard the most vulnerable places in my life with that which is right, good, and noble that I might not receive a fatal blow from the enemy, in my Lord Jesus name.
I pray on the Gospel Shoes of Peace. I choose to stand in the shoes of your good news, and on the firm foundation of my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, the solid eternal rock. All other ground is sinking sand, I pray that I will not slip or fall, but that my feet would be firmly fitted on your lordship, my Lord Jesus. I choose to stand on you, so that the peace of God, which transcends all understanding will guard my heart and mind in Christ Jesus, the eternal Rock of Ages. I receive your holy peace now my Lord, from the sole of my feet to the crown of my head, in my Lord Jesus name.
I pray the Shield of Faith into my hand now. As I take up the shield of faith, I ask that you might extinguish every dart and arrow that is launched from the enemy to take me down spiritually, physically, mentally, emotionally, and every attempt of the enemy to destroy my joy. I ask that my faith in you would make it flame out. Extinguish every flaming arrow that would come against me, my life, my family, my home, or my ministry. May my faith always be out in front of me like a shield. Give me the courage to “faith my fears” by choosing to walk by faith and not by sight, in my Lord Jesus name.
I pray on the Helmet of Salvation, that you might protect my mind from the thoughts that can lead me astray. I choose to take every thought captive, and arrest all intentioned ideas and motives that would harm others, or distract me from your holy will for me. I submit every captured thought to the Lordship of my Lord Jesus Christ, and ask that you would imprison those thoughts that are not of you my Lord. Transform my mind and renew my thinking that I may think God thoughts, and have a sober mind that is focused on your glory. Please protect me from being double minded that I may allow my mind, I reject to live an earthly life, because I choose to live a holy one, governed by you My Lord Jesus, the prince of peace, please have my mind to be saturated with the holy mind of Christ, in my Lord Jesus name.
Finally, I take up the Sword of the Spirit which is the holy word of God, I pray this powerful offensive weapon into my hand, and ask that your holy word would be fitting for every encounter I face. As the enemy gets close to me, please give me the insight, wisdom, and skill to wield the word of God to drive away the enemy, in my Lord Jesus name.
May the enemy and his team flee from me, upon hearing the word of God spoken by the power and direction of the Holy Spirit. Give me the sword of the spirit to cut through the wiles of the devil, so that I may discern the schemes of the enemy when he is near.
With all kinds of prayers, supplication, and intercession I pray to you my Lord God as the one who fights my battles. Now that I’m in your holy powerful armor, I walk away covered and ready to face my day as you go before me, and please protect me in the midst of the spiritual warfare in this unseen world, in my Lord Jesus name.
Thank you my Lord, for the spiritual weapons of armor and prayer that you have given me. It is written no weapon formed against me shall prosper, and you will refute every tongue that accuses me.
Thank you Father God, my Lord Jesus and the Holy Spirit, that I am more than a conqueror in my Lord Jesus. I pray all of this in the mighty name of my Lord God and Savior Jesus Christ, Amen.
PLEASE PRAY FOR ABUSED, MISSING, AND TRAFFICKED CHILDREN
BE MY VOICE
CHILD NOT CHOICE
JESUS LOVES THE LITTLE CHILDREN
St. Michael the Archangel, defend us in battle, be our protection against the wickedness and snares of the devil. May God rebuke him we humbly pray; and do thou, O Prince of the Heavenly host, by the power of God, cast into hell Satan and all the evil spirits who prowl about the world seeking the ruin of souls.
Amen.
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GOD WILL HAVE THE LAST WORD
The world has been horribly hijacked
Evil has aggressively attacked
Whatever way we are tempted to turn
We find ourselves grinded in the quern
Explosions earthquakes sabotage shortages
Destruction destitution poisonous portages
You promised us freedom in a jubilee year
Is it possible this blessing is notably near
You said vengeance is in Your domain
We understand why You must abstain
Your thoughts and timing are surely not ours
We have no doubt in Your mighty powers
We are trying hard to have faith
Not by sight just as you saith
The ungodly spurn and ridicule You
That will be their downfall it is true
The assets of the wicked will be dispersed
To the righteous man as has been versed
We need not worry if God will repay
All they have stolen and taken away
Rest assured God will move unexpectedly
He knows how to manage quite effectively
We need not be concerned if and when
God will have the last word now and then
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Good morning, C&C, it’s Tuesday! Today’s roundup ties a thread through several breaking stories: more fallout from Tulsi Gabbard’s covid disclosures, as Dr. Tony “Mengele” Fauci tries to withdraw his offer to testify in the Senate and gets subpoenaed; corporate media silence on the ODNI disclosures might be a kind of narrative-setting we didn’t expect; Acting DNI Bill Pulte tag-teams in and makes a dramatic entrance on his first day; Democrats panic over potential intelligence cuts and over potential disclosures; and so begins the final boss battle on enemy territory.
So much fun watching the DS be torn to shreds. Don’t stop – ever. MOAR winning. I can’t get enough of winning.
As I’m reading C&C, Pulte cutting staff, Warner sweating, FISA 702 lays dormant – dead.
Last week or the week before, it was unthinkable in DC Speak, to allow FISA 702 to become extinct.
Hilarious FISA 702has not been mentioned recently.
“In an article published late yesterday afternoon, CNN quoted a source saying, “The deep state firings have begun.” The anonymous source “declined to give details on how many jobs had been cut.”
Two other unnamed sources said Pulte asked “all offices to provide a list ranking their personnel by Monday.” It wasn’t completely clear whether “all offices” meant departments within the ODNI or something else.”
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Have them ranked from most important at the top, to least important at the bottom.
Then start firing from the TOP of the list, and work your way down 👍🤣
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She Thought She’d STOLEN THE ELECTION… UNTIL TODAY
Bubby
June 23, 2026 10:33 am
GOOD!
I hope it gets 24-7 coverage with nasty picts of dying baby ducks.
CRAP looks like it MAY be false:
I very very much doubt there was peeling paint. These people who did the restoration were seasoned professionals.
Also DemonRats were pouring stuff into the pool.
https://beforeitsnews.com/opinion-conservative/2026/06/sick-leftists-democrats-arrested-for-ripping-up-vandalizing-lincoln-memorial-reflecting-pool-3741624.html
Following that lead…
Arrests Grow Over Trump’s Reflecting Pool Renovation…
MORE…
AND
that’s what is the right response to these terrorists.
……………………………………As i read down the page I see it might not be true…..however they ARE damaging property in the way of eco terrorism
That there’s karma. Luv it.
Gail says it’s not true.
sigh
it’s getting too difficult to tell anymore…and that’s the point, isn’t it?
No, one of the commenters said it was not true. However investigation shows the stuff she was spouting is bull Schiff.
thanks Gail. it’s why i dislike twitter for the most part. it might get info out quickly, but there is no “trust” in the producer of the tweet. not that the news is any better.
6.23.26: (Q)UANTUM Dominance, Every DETAIL accounted for, White HOUSE posts 17 comms, AWAKENING, PRAY!
And We Know
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ENOUGH. MORE THAN ENOUGH.
FIRE NIH DIRECTOR DR. JAY BHATTACHARYA.
FIRE THE ENTIRE NIH / NIAID STAFF.
TEAR DOWN THE ENTIRE NIH / NIAID. NOW.
UNIVERSITY OF FLORIDA has a “cat torture” lab that is still being funded by NIH. DR. JAY BHATTACHARYA HASN’T STOPPED IT.
https://lauraloomer.substack.com/p/exclusive-university-of-florida
“Biden-Era NIH Grant Still Funding Kitten Torture Lab”
Laura Loomer
23 June 2026
Yours Truly: This is per a White Coat Waste (WCW) investigation.
There’s new video of kittens who were bred to have a crippling brain disease.
University of Florida is one of the NGOs listed on the press release made by former ODNI director Tulsi Gabbard on 19 June (covered in last week’s Health Friday post.)
The video is quite disturbing.
Hi All, this is another Drive By comment in the Curren family saga. Hopefully I can catch up a bit with what’s happening in our Tree, when things die down to a dull roar here…
I’m back at U of M w/ Josiah for a Liver Transplant Clinic Visit & Blood Draw along with his sister as a staff & our driver (thank God Literally–she even brought us breakfast!) & my GD Lillian. the appointment went well & things are looking up, or at least steady, as far as J’s liver is doing. Once the doctor gets all the numbers from today’s blood draw he may decide to reduce One Med & order additional blood work to monitor J’s Liver Status. I hope that can happen as J’s been on these meds for quite a few years now, since his liver rejection bout in 2020. The four of us are getting refreshed at the family Resource Center, where I’m writing to you on their computer & enjoying free snacks & the happy chatter of kids–Therapy Dog just showed up!
All of us, well maybe not Lillian, are extremely exhausted, with all of the upheaval & drama surrounding my Dad’s death (it’ll be 2 weeks tomorrow & today is one week from his funeral) & the subsequent actions, expectations, & (mis)communications surrounding the management of his estate. My family has been Massively Traumatized in this 🙁
Clarissa & I spent about 3 hours at Dad’s house on Sunday going through possessions to find things we considered important &/or wanted to keep. Yesterday my husband & I headed over in the afternoon to manage the process & then Michael left when Brandon arrived, after pulling 36 straight hours on firefighting &/or EMT, to assist me up until the midnight deadline. We had to remove & document all that we took before midnight & then we’re basically not to be at Dad’s house again. Both Michael & Brandon used “my” (my late mother’s) phone to photo & text all the necessary images; I honestly don’t think I could have handled that aspect of the process but it was pretty easy for them 🙂
Little bro (& SIL?) were to be with the Estate Sale company today on some type of walk through to arrange for what will be up for sale. What I removed, if it must be purchased, is “supposed” to be at “garage sale pricing” but there may be some issues with items the Estate Sale company had already photographed & hoped to sell (even though I never waived my 1/3 right in my father’s estate including his household contents nor did I even know that was happening when we went there w/ OK bro the Day After My Dad’s Funeral. Neither of my brothers wanted much from the house so I have all photos, film, & several other categories for “free” at least. Fortunately, Hubby had recently cleaned out the garage so there was (relative) room for hopefully temporary storage. I’m absolutely exhausted & have been overwhelmed in various ways–sometimes I’m just literally shaking, &/or crying, &/or kind of staggering about on sore legs forgetting what I was about to do–such a bizarro-world existance.
We have a partially fleshed out proposal to acquire The Hilton hunting “cabin” on the table & just need to probably tweak some details to get that sufficiently addressed. It looks like between our kids & Michael’s long-time hunting buddy, Pete, we may not have to spend “our” money to execute the purchase, except for perhaps closing costs..whew. Brandon got me on a conference call with his fiancée, the law student, & she offered helpful insights about the legal side of things. She also wanted him to tell me her percentages: she wants to keep the Cottage in the family 70% & let it go 30%–& she’s never even been there yet! She recognized how important it is to Brandon & imagines their future children getting to experience & love it similar to how B does. What an absolute treasure she is!!!
As far as the Cottage goes my brothers are willing to entertain an offer from us but they don’t want us to “low-ball” them. I indicated that I didn’t want them to “high-ball” me on it either. I need time to regroup, get sleep, just get some emotional distance in my head space, & more. I’m in no shape to do necessary research & reading w/ comprehension on important documents…There has been no room to breathe or grieve–overwhelming.
We celebrated our oldest GD Lilah’s 4th birthday on Saturday at her other grandma’s home. Nathaniel’s MIL had worked in the funeral industry for 2 decades & she said in all her years she’s never seen a more dysfunctional family situation than what is happening in my family. She was even tearful talking w/ me as she feels so badly about what we’re going through. Brandon’s friend & roommate was on speaker phone last night while B & I were working in Dad’s basement & he was choked up thinking about how things are going for us & he’s already gone through the death of both of his parents while he was in his 20s. Honestly this compassion from others has been an uplift in a very dark, strange season.
Hopefully I can actually get a shower today & finally get some (better) rest as sometimes I’ve only gotten 2-3 hours of sleep then up for the bathroom & head space or people just intrude & I can’t get back to sleep. I hope to avoid email & text messages until at least tomorrow so I can have just a bit of room to breathe. Michael sent out a notification to that effect on my behalf yesterday so maybe I have Some wiggle room…
I need to refill Josiah’s pill box, which is challenging when I’m in “top” (Ha) form let alone when I’m as beat up & exhausted as I currently am, he needs that done so he can head back to Rose’s for a bit. I was paying bills a couple days ago & made Many bizarre math errors for I couldn’t concentrate & focus & I used to be a top math person (one of 4 in my HS of 1200 that qualified to take a higher level math assessment)–baby brain AND “estate assaults” have basically destroyed that, at least in the short term…sigh…
I, & my family, could still really use prayer. There are still many moving parts but we at least see the possibility of securing the properties Up North, which are a top priority.
I miss you guys but I haven’t even had the strength to turn on the laptop & check in..sigh.
Thanks for thinking of me, reading along a bit on my saga, & for praying for me & my family during these very strange seasons that keep coming upon us.
In Jesus’ Love,
Valerie
Edit: Josiah was skim reading this over my shoulder & thought I was telling about Wedgies that happened to Michael when he mis-read my “wiggle room” comment. I needed a Jazzman laugh!
Valerie Curren
Good to hear that your son’s appointment went well.
Please, listen.
One: The emotional and physical symptoms you describe are among those that happen in very early grief after a loved one’s death. These symptoms are intertwined with the psychological shock of losing the loved one (especially if it’s a parent, a spouse, or a child.) What you and your husband and children are going through is completely normal.
Two: However, the VERY rapid and apparently “steamroller” approach to your father’s Estate that the sibling-Executor is doing is NOT normal, NOR ethical.
This business of “get out of Dad’s house before Midnight” is NOT normal, NOR ethical. Is this “time limit” language exactly set out in the Will or Trust documents?
Ditto with having to BUY items from the Estate — even at “garage-sale prices.” Is this language exactly set out in the Will or Trust documents?
Ditto with the sibling-Executor ALREADY HAVING BEEN THROUGH the property, taking photographs of items for potential sale. Is this language, and/or a description of the Executor’s ability to do this, in the Will or Trust documents?
Yes, you’re exhausted. IMO, the sibling-Executor is taking extreme (and unethical) advantage of this — and of you.
IMO, you must get an Estate attorney to represent your interests in your father’s Estate — today.
IMO, you’re getting “the short end of the stick.” Don’t let that happen.
I SECOND THAT!!!
PLEASE get a lawyer TODAY before everything including the house is sold out from under you.
Once sold, the courts have ZERO interest. BTDT and am still angry five decades later.
Thank you Gail, your lived experience is an extremely cautionary tale!
Valerie Curren
Unless there is exact and explicit language in the Will and/or the Trust documents that the Executor has complete freedom to fulfill the dictates of the Estate in any way they see fit (including “making it up as they go along”) — IMO, any statement or action by the sibling-Executor that they can “do whatever they want” regarding the Estate is not only not ethical: it is null and void.
What I am hearing is Sister-in-law wants it done NOW and the $$$ in her hands. She figures the family OWES her because she took care of ‘Dad’.
For God’s sake…her caregiving time was short in the big picture! Some of us have taken care of 2 elderly parents one after the next.
Yes, it’s all a matter of perspective. sorry for the difficult weights you’ve born in your family situation too 🙁
No prob…honestly I was lucky that my job and situation made it possible for me to help them. I loved them very much and always felt I owed them whatever I could manage at the end of their earthly journey.
(don’t get me wrong..it was hard at times but I didn’t regret it)
That’s beautiful Molly, such sacrificial love…Bless YOU!
Oh..you’re so sweet Val…so nice to say that
Hugs 🙂
Have her state an amount. Then the rest of you get together and figure out how to put it together. Then simply buy her out.
If she resists, sue her for making a fraudulent offer.
Technically the estate is thirds between 3 siblings not spouses, fwiw
Precisely. Spouse(s) should STFU.
Bros AND Sis figure how to do stuff correctly.
Of course spouses talk to each other. BUT, no seat at the decision making table.
Exactly. but the earful from My spouse I just got… 🙁
Michael’s counsel is, Wise.
I hope so, but he’s also impulsive in his ADHD & just wants the pain to stop, as in if I’m not hurting (as much) then he’s not hurting as much trying to protect me. He feels quite hamstrung now because he wants to punch little bro in the throat but that might damage our prospects going forward. Not to mention it’s not how God would desire that he would act!
Could be…
I’ll have to look more closely, assuming I can even find it & process it now…
For Peace of Mind, Get that attorney. Don’t wait MONTHS!
Prayers continue🙏🙏🙏
Thanks Firefly. We really need those prayers. Michael was so troubled last night that he lost enough sleep that he had to call off work (again) today as he wouldn’t have been safe to drive 🙁
I don’t have much to add to your excellent comment but I do agree that the whole process is extremely odd and purposefully intense.
I’d be in fight mode on top of grieving
Who in the hell has to BUY their parents knickknacks???? Or even better things? That’s greedy weird demands
Thank you again CV for weighing in. I read your remarks to Hubby which sparked an hour+ long conversation. Lots of heaviness around here…
FYI in a lot of the US, if a law student gives legal advice it is a felony.
Also even being charged is enough to have Bar Associations refuse to allow the accused to take the Bar Exam. A conviction is not needed.
No worry. IIRC, this student is in Canada.
Oh WAIT a second. Everything is illegal in Canuckistan.
Score!
She’s Not giving legal advice. she has pointed out details she recalls from the document she’s read to provide clarity in the midst of our chaotic situation
It doesn’t matter if you think it’s legal advice; it’s what the evil ones can do. A bunch of complications that one does not need.
Thanks for the Warning PGroup!
“Also even being charged is enough to have Bar Associations refuse to allow the accused to take the Bar Exam. A conviction is not needed.”
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Presumed guilty without even the opportunity to prove innocence.
Because the last people on earth who would uphold bedrock principles of law and justice, the last people who would want you to have your day in court, is the legal profession.
Apparently the irony is lost on them…
I LOVE when you weigh in with Scott-icisms!!!
TY Valerie! 😁
YW 👍
Wondering. Is younger Bro spouse, your SIL named as an Executor?
NO only little bro, but she likely has quite a bit of influence on him, so we guess…my other bro in OK is the back up Trustee/Executor…
Hey, just an aside, leaving Dad’s house last night, probably for the last time, I saw another huge Arabic writing flag waving from a passenger car this time, about 1:30am. Both of these sightings were late at night in Dearbornistan. I have no idea what it Might mean but it did strike me as odd. Way different vibes than huge American flags waving!
I sure hope you got a lawyer!
Debating pros & cons of what that might do. We have some names & data to crunch.
Valerie,
All you need to do is have a lawyer READ the will/trust and tell him what is going on, then ask his opinion. NO ONE needs to know you consulted a lawyer.
Thanks Gail!
That islamo flag thing has meaning of some kind and it’s never going to be a good meaning so..head on a swivel
I agree!
World soccer win, celebrating by Morrocans (who won against Scotland) or perhaps some other ME team…
Could be 🙂
Morocco, Michigan — what’s the diff? To-may-to, to-mah-to…..
Boom!
https://joannenova.com.au/2026/06/snowy-2-0-is-the-trillion-dollar-black-hole-of-australia-sucking-in-energy-money-land-industrial-relations-the-dollar-our-lifestyle/
Goldman has responded and stood up for the guy.
John is an incredible person and public servant who has
servedserviced New York City slimeball elites with dedication,…Increased the accuracy!
Yeah most likely!
But the dude is a pervert. No one who behaves like this, involved in this should have position of yrust, D or R. Sickening.
That guy needs to have brass knuckles forcefully applied to his face.
One application is usually sufficient to make the abuse go away.
Citizen Free Press headlines that link to CNN:
Then fix the system. That’s one of the things DOGE has been doing, although I don’t know if this kind of case is within their purview.
So anyone can come here illegally but can’t be asked to leave without “due process”? I think that was forfeited at Step One.
“We are exploring next steps.”
Don’t explore; close your eyes and jump!
WATCH: DOJ Announces 455 Defendants Charged in 45 States Since June 8 for OVER $6.5 Billion in Healthcare Fraud
From the video transcript:
So get rid of that abrego dude, now.
The times we live in….
https://notthebee.com/article/report-female-cop-accidentally-shot-jewish-rabbi-outside-pornhub-hq-while-hiding-from-marxist-gunman-who-killed-immigrant-montreal-officer-named-mohamed?from_social=twitter
Would not have happened if she had grown up around firearms.
And knew how to use them.
No video with the article……
I saw it yesterday.
Mike Netter:
Name names, pics, and long jail sentences.
https://merylnass.substack.com/p/federal-health-agencies-have-been
Federal health agencies have been trying to change autopsy reports that find vaccines caused someone to die for over 25 years
Wondering why you don’t see accurate warnings on vaccine labels?
25 years, so not just COVID. 😡
Peace and Tranquility Prayers
Prayer for a Calm Heart
Lord of Peace, as evening falls, I seek the calmness only You can provide. Quell the storms of my mind and replace anxiety with Your peace. As the world quiets down, let my heart do the same. May Your presence envelop me so that I may know tranquility tonight and always. Amen.
Serenity at Day’s End
Heavenly Father, with the closing of this day, I ask for serenity. As the night sky displays its vast beauty, let my soul mirror its peacefulness. Help me to let go of the worries of the day and trust in Your loving care. May Your peace reign in my heart and home tonight. Amen.
Prayer for Restful Stillness
Dear God, in the stillness of this evening, I come to You seeking rest for my soul. Help me to lay down the burdens I’ve carried today and find comfort in Your arms. Grant me peace that passes understanding and a rest that restores my spirit. May my sleep be undisturbed and my dreams be sweet. Amen.
Nighttime Whisper for Peace
Creator of All, as I listen to the night’s gentle whisper, I ask for peace to settle over me. Let Your tranquility wash away the noise of the day. In this quiet hour, I lean on Your promise of peace, a heavenly balm to my weary soul. Keep me in perfect peace as I keep my mind stayed on You. Amen.
Prayer for Gentle Rest
Omnipotent and Gentle Lord, at the end of this day, I seek the gentle rest that You so lovingly provide. May my mind be at ease, my body relax, and my spirit find harmony. Help me to release every concern into Your capable hands and sleep in the assurance of Your protection and peace. Amen.
You Wont’ BELIEVE What the SUPREME COURT Just RULED!!!
African woman.
She Thought She Could STEAL FROM AMERICANS… UNTIL TODAY
African woman.
Troublemaker10
June 23, 2026 4:22 pm
https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/svg/1f3af.svg
“They didn’t just import voters, they imported judges too”
-Elon Musk-
Cont….
And no one will remove these f wads from the bench immediately.
Don’t bother trying to remove them from the bench — that’s on Congress. Instead, find some reason in their background to deport them.
Beat me to it!
Heyyyy that too.
[DS] World Is Imploding Around Them, Activation Word Confirmed, The Storm Is On The Way – Ep. 3933
June 23, 2026 x22report
https://x22report.com/ds-world-is-imploding-around-them-activation-word-confirmed-the-storm-is-on-the-way-ep-3933/
The green agenda is completely backfiring on the [CB]/[DS]. The Uk found asbestos in the turbines. Paying the [CB] interest does not help the people of this country, we are paying almost trillion in interest. Trump is now moving to shutdown the [CB] agenda, CBDC will not be allowed in the US. The [DS] world is imploding on them. They cannot stop the fallout and their money supply is drying up. They are in a panic right now. Trump and team have even more control, the [DS] army is being destroyed across the globe. Trump administration is continually letting us know that they are in control. Information was released that confirms an activation word, the storm is on the way.
Ep 3933a – Trump Is About To Shutdown The [CB] Plan With A New Law, Timing Is Everything
https://x22report.com/aiovg_videos/ep-3933a-trump-is-about-to-shutdown-the-cb-plan-with-a-new-law-timing-is-everything/
Ep 3933b – [DS] World Is Imploding Around Them, Activation Word Confirmed, The Storm Is On The Way
https://x22report.com/aiovg_videos/ep-3933b-ds-world-is-imploding-around-them-activation-word-confirmed-the-storm-is-on-the-way/
Lib Women of ‘The View’ FREAKOUT On-Air as Trump Moves To SHUT DOWN Show After Karmelo Anthony Lies…
Shut them down, don’t care anymore.
The Left is demonic. They will accept nothing but violence, so give them what they want, and wipe them out.
Two African women and two or three white women, with a Nicaraguan woman thrown in occasionally.
Hard to miss the pattern.
It’s all women.
I know there are Leftist men too, but they don’t even rate. They are not the provocateurs.
Carville certainly tries to be provocative, but he’s practically withered away with aged hatred, nobody pays attention to him.
Who are the male provocateurs on the Left? I can’t really think of any. Piers Morgan tries, but he has no fire.
Sharpton is a shell of his former race-hustling self. The usual talking heads like Anderson Cooper and Don Lemon and the fossils at 60 Minutes, but they’re clearly not leading anything.
They’re all effeminate. They’re all beta bois, half of them are openly gay. They all take a back seat while the vicious, unhinged women drive the hate bus.
President Trump just DROPPED this line on Democrat US Senate candidates James Talarico and Jon Ossoff
They BOTH MUST LOSE!
“Isn’t it strange, the Dumocrats are running a man in Texas who looks virtually identical to Alfred E. Neuman, of MAD Magazine fame and, in Georgia, they’re running someone who looks like a twin to the Late, Great, Pee-wee Herman.”
“With these two horrible Political Candidates, I don’t know if there’s a genetic tree, but it certainly is close! What do you think? In any event, Mike Collins, of Georgia, should easily beat Pee-wee, and Ken Paxton, of Texas, should easily beat Alfred E. Vote Republican and, MAKE AMERICA GREAT AGAIN! President DONALD J. TRUMP”
Talarico is insane.
Iran: The State of Play, 6/23/2026
This is the second in a series of articles on what I think is going on between the U.S. and Iran at the moment. (The first article is here.) Much of what I am about to say here is my opinion, and that’s an important fact. I say that because right now, unless you are someone who is high up in the Trump Administration, all any of us have is our opinions—and we all know that old saw about opinions. I don’t care how many stars some retired general has or how many PhDs some MILTWITTER nerd claims to have, they are playing opinion grab-a** just like the rest of us. Keep that in mind as you read reports like what I am writing now.
So let’s dive in.
First of all, I still stand by the fact that, with the exception of trusting Fauci and Birx regarding COVID, Trump has never let me down with any of his major policy decisions, and therefore he has earned my trust. Many times those policy decisions seem unclear or erratic as they evolve, but the end result almost always is the achievement of a policy goal that was Trump’s original target—the “Art of the Deal,” folks.
So I trust that Trump and his team know what they are doing, I believe his track record has earned him that trust, and I suggest that anyone who voted for him keep the faith just as I am.
Having stated that opinion, there are some facts that I believe support my opinions and give hope that the Iranian situation will finally resolve to a civilized level after 47 years of mullahcracy terror. As with my prior article, laying out these facts simply and directly can provide a better understanding of the current state of play:
So, to recap:
-The old mullahs are dead. The new guys might be more trustworthy because they fear for their lives. Trump seems to think they are, and I trust Trump.
-All the old economic sanctions failed, so what’s wrong with a new economic approach?
-Iran’s nuclear and military capabilities are no longer a threat, for the time being at least.
-Trump will not put boots on the ground in Iran, because that was a campaign promise and he keeps his campaign promises more so than any other American politician in any living American’s memory.
-We cannot allow the world or U.S. economies to crash, particularly before the midterms.
So we won’t allow that even if it means selling Iranian oil.
-If the Iranian leaders sign a deal and then renege, effective inspectors will know and we will then kill the current crop of dudes and say “You got next” to anyone left standing.
Defanged Iran + possibly rational Iranian leaders + oil flowing + a good economy + winning the midterms + reserving the right to still blow the mullahs sky high = good policy.
I trust that Trump has the right policy goals in mind and that he is reading the room correctly. I recommend you give him the same trust until he definitively shows he has not earned it, and we’re not there yet.
As my wife likes to end all of her posts: Peace and Be Prepared. I think that is apropos here.
No surprise here.
Figured the initial report FSD was bullshit.
Obviously, the driver must be held accountable forthelifetaken.
UPDATE: Tesla Auto-Pilot VP Says Driver Who Crashed into Home at 73 MPH Killing Elderly Woman Overrode Self-Driving Mode – Elon Musk Says Driver’s Claim “Makes No Sense”
https://www.thegatewaypundit.com/2026/06/update-tesla-auto-pilot-vp-says-driver-who/
Yes, this makes no sense. FSD drives slowly through neighborhood streets and this was a high speed crash!
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As a big Tesla user and airline pilot
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Many want to blame Tesla. I’m no investigator but this looks the driver overrode the throttle by flooring it. The human is always in charge. Need facts, but I think human error is very probable
I hope they get to the bottom of this. I’m not questioning the story, but I would like to know what would have caused the driver to floor it while making a turn and in a residential neighborhood.
Went for the brake and hit the accelerator instead — then panicked.
Possibly. I’m just wondering what would have caused that. Under normal driving conditions, that is not likely to happen.
I’ve never driven a self-driving car, so maybe in those cars the driver can get out of the usual driving position so their feet are not in place. Then if they have to get back in position, they could hit the wrong pedal. But if the car is self-driving and under control on its own, I don’t see a need for panic in order to get control of it. Something is off, somewhere.
I can tell you, having done this myself with mere cruise control, that what you hypothesize here is exactly right.
When feet are off the pedals for any length of time, one must be careful that the body has not rotated in the seat, even a little, because then it is easy to hit either both pedals or the wrong pedal.
When the car “does the wrong thing” as the pedal is pushed, there is an immediate sense of unreality. The smart and correct response is to think that one hit the wrong pedal, but there is no guarantee that all people will think that. Some, sadly, will think that the CAR is at fault. The driver’s mind will be disconnected from reality, and quite possibly won’t figure things out.
TradeBait2
Thank you so much!
IMO, the Antifa-types, the DSA-types, the socialists in Congress, etc., have decided that it’s their “duty” to force the United States to follow the dictates of violence, narcissism, and Communism, instead of following the principles of the Founding Fathers.
👍 I agree, PAVACA.
Not to be crass, but, the problem they have is the vast majority of Americans and our patriot military do not agree with them and we have the guns to enforce the law and Constitution.
Dan Goldman lost his primary. Wipeout. The socialist got over 60%.
https://www.nbcnews.com/politics/2026-primary-elections/new-york-us-house-district-10-results
Maybe his perverted staff menber will be gone too.
NY will eventually regret going full commie.
Hope so. I understand the usual thing is to keep all the congressional staff bc its easier. Of course thats a ds entrenched plan. I imagine the socialist, if he wins in mov, will fire everyone and place dsa only in.
California-Based Biden Judge Issues Nationwide Block on ICE’s Policy of Arresting Illegals at Courthouses
https://www.thegatewaypundit.com/2026/06/california-based-biden-judge-issues-nationwide-block-ices/